I know one thing when I see a girl in clothes that are all coordinated, matching socks, shoes, AND hair accessory. I know for an ABSOLUTE fact ……. that girl is NOT my 2nd born! Ever since child #2 was an itty bitty, she marched to her own drum. I would tell her to put on a white shirt and she would come down with a blue shirt with a rainbow on it. I tried in the beginning to stop the madness and tell her what she should wear. She wore me down FAST. Now, I just let her have at it. I think by letting her figure out her own style and supporting it has made her a more confident kiddo. She feels good about what she is wearing so why should I have a problem with it? AND you know what? I love her style.